Will You Be My Valentine?

Love means togetherness.
SO what does it mean to be in love? People ask all the time, "Have you ever been in love?" , and the answer should always be yes because if you say no it means that you have never felt togetherness in your life. Being in love does not mean you have to be in a relationship or be committed to someone else. The love between you and your parents, family, friends and even pets count.

Do you know what is the most important kind of love? It is self-love. I don't think you can truly love anyone else with all your heart unless you love yourself first. After you love yourself, you can love anything and everything or anyone around you.

What we should remember is that when you love someone else, you should never give yourself up for them. You matter just as much as them. I have seen many people that forget themselves when they get into a relationship.

So today is the 14th of February which means it is Valentine's day. So what is this day all about? It is a day where everyone around the world celebrates love and the people they love. Honestly, most single people feel low on this day and they should not be as I have said above that love is felt by everyone and because of togetherness. Yes, couples celebrate this occasion with their partner but that does not mean that we, single people can't. Every year including today I celebrate it with my family just in a simple way that is by spending time together. To those that are still single, WAIT. Your time will come. Till then, enjoy life with the people around you and celebrate with them.

Last year I spent the day with friends in school. In fact, we celebrated Valentine's week in school and it was great when friends buy roses, cards, chocolates or even sing serenades for their friends. It was truly a great week. Friends just asked each other to be their Valentine and not expect commitment. It was just love between the friendship groups and it was nice to see and experience. So when someone asks to be your Valentine, say yes but feel free to say no and not force yourself to say yes. Have fun but you better be sure of the situation and not get stuck in a commitment that you were not ready to make. Get and give roses to one another. Spread love and happiness.

Valentine's day is not the only day you should be spreading the love. It should be every day of the year. 

Since today is Valentine's day, I would like to wish you lots of love and hope you had a great Wednesday.

Valentine's Day Rose

 Till next time~~

xoxo